Wilmurphy Things that Successful Men Love About Women They Date Several female friends have mentioned that this year they want to meet someone nice, so I asked men what they like about the women they date. Here is what they said ) She shows her confidence without being condescending. ) Intelligent, well read, intellectual, and able to hold a stimulating conversation without taking over the room. ) She is a great listener. ) She is affectionate but not clingy. ) Her girlfriends advise her well without getting caught in the middle. ) Social grace – At social events she elevates us as a couple. People want you at their events and parties because they love her. ) Career balance – In control of her career not controlled by her career. Her career doesn’t define her, but is simply a place to use her gifts. ) She makes good decisions. ) Can agree to disagree without escalating a bad discussion into an argument. ) She is clear in her identity. She doesn’t think she is someone that she is not. ) Sex appeal – Can select things to wear that enhance her beauty without over exposing her assets. Perfect fit, smells incredible, stunning when she enters a room. ) Let’s me know she doesn’t feel well or is in a bad mood without taking it out on others. ) Uses words to lift people up not tear them down. If she tells you off it feels like you just heard a message of encouragement. ) Treats little girls like angels and is kind, patient and loving to kids. ) Understands and wants to learn more about money. ) She respects herself enough to know when to walk away from bad people. Friends, boyfriends, jobs, family. ) Is a dreamer and can see herself doing things that are positive. ) May not be a good cook, but knows what good food tastes like. ) Takes care of her body. ) Has a clean and somewhat organized house. ) Is constantly improving herself. ) Is ok with asking me for help Goes to church but doesn’t thump a bible or make people feel bad about their religious beliefs. Shares her spiritual knowledge with others. ) Knows me physically and understands my needs. Is good at talking about sex without being uncomfortable. What do you think? Sign up for my VIP contact list * indicates required Email Address * First Name Last Name Do you want to change your life? Attract the man you desire? Accomplish more of your goals?